To Be Loved

Defined as:
a strong positive emotion
an object of warm affection or devotion
terms of endearment
to be enamoured or deeply captivated
a score of zero in tennis

Is it a feeling? Is it an action or sport? The definition of love would seemingly be timeless. Possibly our mere humanness keeps us from its fullness. Only allowing a glimpse of its silky sensation. If we are fortunate enough to find the ONE who mutually enchants the similar quest for its affections!

How ever you may choose to express your quest to find LOVE and share it with one. To make a reality of LOVE your mission, expedition, pursuit, hunt, or journey to find it OR maintain it. Must be vigorous!

Marriage is the attempt of publicly making it known that you are joined in everyday to another. A man and Women promise to share all things. Agreeing that at its best and worst life will not severe the commitment made to become one flesh.

Some how the national averages show we are confused about this commitment. Possibly trustfulness has evaded the alter of matrimony that our parents and their parents taught us to treasure more than a fine gem.

The searcher, hunter, chaser, pursuer, explorer, investigator or inquirer will have a heavy task indeed.

For the incorrect action thought to be unwise, unfortunate bad judgement or lack of exposure to ones morning face/breathe or other distinctive qualities. Is a catastrophe after one has engaged in the legal binding of lives known as Marriage. SO, the searcher, hunter, chaser, purser, explorer, investigator or inquirer roll. MUST not be taken lightly now should it.

How long must you search, hunt, chase, purse, explore, investigate or inquirer before it is sufficiently accomplished?

The ANSWER: -A Life Time

ask your grand parents about their grand parents prepare yourself to cacth the mistakes of your past through your heritage.

I am convinced True Love boils down to one thing!

The unadulterated old fashion TRUST!

The FACT that you have spent enough time to know who this person is and who they will be everyday for the rest of their lives physically mentally and spiritually. That you have seen them act and react to everything they will ever encounter. That regardless of circumstance and obligation, satisfaction or ill intent you have seen them stand strong and are not shaken from the principle of commitment. That pride, loyalty and fortitude are found within their character in every facet of their very existence.

Then and only then my friend will you be like Charlie in the chocolate factory of LOVE! Ready for marriage and all its candy coating.

Sounds impossible you say?

I agree.

It is this mere mortals opinion as I have failed and I have accomplished greatly in this arena. That until you have accomplished a life time beside one. I believe only then can you explain the secret of true love. Yes once you have spent the life you have no voice as you give up the ghost. so then it will remain a secret right?

There is no fear in Perfect Love, But Perfect Love drives out all fears. Because fear has to do with punishment. The one who fears is not perfected by or in love.

If you have fear you should read Roman 8:15 here it is said that you are not born of the spirit of fear...

yet if you are fearful your quest will be tainted and your selction and focus will equally be ill advised. http://www.slate.com/id/2224932/

I think God himself showed us the best expression of Love through the life of Jesus Chrit and if we can imitate it possible stay out of the way we will share it. live it. Embrace it...the desire to be loved.